An Attitude Choice

A man in the middle ages became fed up with humanity and decided to spend the rest of his life in a monastery. The abbot warned him that he would have to take a vow of silence and live the rest of his life as a scribe, to which the man replied, "No problem. I'm sick of talking."

Ten years went by, and the abbot called for the man. He told him that he was a model monk and perfect scribe, and that they were very happy to have him. As per their tradition, he was allowed to say two words. Asked if he had anything to say, the man nodded and said, "Food cold."

The abbot sent him on his way. Ten years later, he was brought before the abbot again and once again told how pleased they were with his performance, and that he was again allowed two more words if he so chose. The man said, "Bed hard," and was sent back to work.

Another ten years went by, and again the abbot sent for the man, telling him that he was the best monk they had ever had, and that he was allowed another two words. The man nodded and said, "I quit."

To this the abbot replied in a disgusted tone, "Doesn't surprise me. You've done nothing but complain since you got here."

A funny story, but maybe it hits too close to home for some of us. Complaining has become a way of life in today's world, especially with social media, and the truth be told, there's plenty to complain about. But for the Christian we are called to contentment regardless of our circumstances, and so complaining is not an option. In fact, the Bible specifically tells us to "do everything without complaining" (Philippians 2:14). And if you ever wonder what God thinks about our "murmuring," read through the Old Testament book of Numbers. Let's just say, if you're a complainer, you should be glad that you haven't been consumed by fire, or snakes, or had the ground open up and swallow you up for whining. Yet.

But more than that, I think most of us would just like to enjoy life, and we need to realize that a general attitude of negativity or dissatisfaction with all that is wrong in the world will suck the joy right out of life. One pastor said it this way: "Complaining is an attitude choice that if left unchecked will kill my capacity to experience joy and genuine thankfulness."

So here's the truth we all need to be reminded of: complaining is a choice, and I can choose not to complain, regardless of my circumstances. I think I'll choose joy, and thankfulness, and contentment, and see the half-full glass, instead of whining, grumbling, murmuring and seeing the negative side of life. Who's with me?

I am sure grateful for the privilege of pastoring such a great church, and I look forward to seeing you on Sunday.

--Pastor Ken